I don’t know why I have written this post . . . but I have a message to the men and boys out there, I want to tell them to look well after their wives, daughters or girlfriends—the female genders are very sensible people, we love being cherished, loved and respected.
It’s the duty of the male gender to protect and love unconditionally your significant other, the male gender doesn’t have a menstrual cycle which means they don’t get pregnant and are exempted of these hormonal issues, men are more tough and strong, whereas women are delicate and gentle flowers, a man is a man and a woman is a woman, no matter what this decade would be saying–it’s like that.
You (for both genders) can’t pretend to be someone before your wedding and show your real face after your unification.
Marriage is a sacred vow that should never be broken, there are too many divorces nowadays and the ones that suffer the most in this situation are the children.
There must be many types of communications before accepting to engage seriously with someone, you must see if your dreams and goals are on the same level, what do you expect from your future husband or future wife? If ever your wife is unable to work, would you able to look after your future family,? Will your love stay the same if ever she undergoes physical transformation and vice versa?
When two people love each other, they have to be able to uplift each other, to show acts of love and kindness almost every day, it’s important that you the male gender love your significant other, because a woman is not meant to be understood but is meant to be loved, so never stop putting love and tenderness in your family life, and cherish every single moment you live by the side of the only one you love.
And this is how you should love the love of your life:
“I loved her against reason, against promise, against peace, against hope, against happiness, against all discouragement that could be.” ― Charles Dickens, Great Expectations